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"The Joy of Growth Processes" by
Bob
How Therapy Gave Me Optimism About My Future
Don D. from Texas
My Story out of Homosexuality and into Heterosexuality
Rich
G
etting Free
David
My Story of Change
Ted
The Rainbow Connection.
Kaelly Langston
T
he Way OUT
Larry
Alive
Terron
An Interview with Change
Bob
Listen to Ex-Gays Too
Anonymous
C
lient Describes Change Process
Carey
An Ex-Gay Man Describes the Change Process
Gordon
Touching the Feminine Soul
Diane
I Remember How It Was to Be Gay
Anonymous
"Can Gay Men Go Straight?" Ed
Gaydar
Todd
M
y Positive Experience with Reparative Therapy
C.S.
They are only your "friends" so long as they can get what they want from you. Sam
Teshuva means "return" - to our essential self, to who we really are. Anonymous
But what really disillusioned me about gay people was the shallowness and the obsession about youth.
Nathan
I’m no longer queer, GET USED TO IT!
Jake
Any way I could receive love, with girls or boys, I would take it.
Gary
I was afraid that if I didn’t do what he wanted, he wouldn’t like me anymore.
Tom
Since my early childhood, I had three dreams
Richard
"...abusive father who preferred to ignore me and use rage and escapism as control tactics..."
Glen
I am incredibly grateful for a counselor who did not insist that the only path to healing was to be a lesbian...
J.H.
Homosexual sex is an act of taking - not an act of giving.
Roger
"I need help, I want help, and I need to become myself again..."
Neil
"why are you so passionately infuriated at the thought of a man changing his orientation?"
Anonymous
"Our son is smart; he will figure things out..."
Jose
I am writing this well into adult life and as a father of several children.
Anonymous
I saw that it was within my power and free will to leave behind this adolescent emotional state.
Ryan
Getting a tattoo and a piercing did not feel shocking enough, so I chose lesbianism as the ultimate shocker.
R.E.R.
I would seek out a man to please so I could feel that I WAS A SOMEBODY.
Nathan
A Long Hard Road
Daniel Meir Horowitz
You struggle desperately between wanting to satisfy your "natural" desires, and your emunah.
R.L.
I remember you looking at me in the rear-view mirror and very coldly and flatly saying "quit crying you little pussy."
Stephen
“How could you have lived with such a big secret for such a long time?"
Rachel
I was repelled by ... whole idea of being sexually tender with another man.
Anonymous
"In falling in love with another woman, [Leeron] is really seeking to connect with herself."-
Hope
I found myself searching for masculine connectedness and identification...
Andre
Feeling Different plus Sexual Abuse Lead to My SSA
Aaron
My version of love was totally narcissistic
Casey
Why Gays Need to Believe They Were Born Gay: A Neurotic Drive for Acceptance.
Don
W
hy Many Homosexuals Hate Ex-Gays: Thoughts from A JONAH Member
Michael Shaw
My Story of Change.
David in NY
Life Story of A Hungarian Overcomer
Uri
Getting Health Touch at a Journey Into Manhood Weekend
David
Happy 42nd Birthday to Me: Un-Stonewalling My Dad
Paul
Has Anyone Really Changed from SSA to OSA? Yes. Me.
Bart
How My Life Has Changed Since Last Summer.
Rick
Letter to Dennis Prager (Radio Show Host) from a JONAH Man.
Israel
Letter to Doctor Jack Drescher.
Steven
Letter to My Father.
Joshua
I'm So Confused: Can I Really Change?.
Jacob
My Fight for Authenticity As A Man
Jacob
My Healing Journey Into Manhood
Henry
My Pride in Becoming a Bridegroom
Anonymous
My Secret Life
Avrohom
One JONAH Struggler's Thoughts on the Gay Pride Events in Jerusalem.
Akiva
Reflection After Attending a Journey Into Manhood Weekend.
Jack
So You Want To CHANGE?
Anonymous
Telling My Fiancee About My SSA And Her Reaction.
Zev
My Changing Sexual Orientation.
Yaakov
My Stor
y.
Louis
Reparative Therapy helped save my life.
Joe
These Revelations and Experiences Have Been So Healing.
Steve
I was looking for love in all the wrong places.
Chuck
I needed to feel like one of the boys.
Jack Yosef
I Finally Came Face to Face With the Fears that Drove My Homosexual Behavior.
"M"
Interview With Jerry Armelli
Jerry
Interview With A Former Gay Activist: Two Year Follow-up.
Michael Glatze
I was repelled by ... whole idea of being sexually tender with another man.
Anonymous
Happy Ending to My Daughter's Situational Lesbianism-
Hope
Coming Out to Heal
- Eric Rustman
God's Amazing Grace
Andre
Feeling Different plus Sexual Abuse Lead to My SSA
Aaron
The Speech
Sean Patrick
Interview With Andrew Comiskey.
Andrew Comiskey
Healing the Savage Injuries That Lead Me into the Gay Porn World.
Joseph Sciambra
On the Same Team with My Brothers
D.P. in Israel
Becoming the Real Me
Jedekiah "Jeddy" Stailey
Touching the Core of My SSA
David from Pennsylvania
Where Would I Be Without Courage and JONAH?
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David DeJiacomo
Holiday Magazine: My Adolescent SSA Fantasy
- D.P., from Israel
My Experience of Therapy
- Simon
Reflections of a Changed and Grateful Traveler
- Samuel
Why Does the World Not Want to Face the Pain of Child Abuse and SSA
- John Stephen W. of London, U.K.
Gay Conversion: I Slept With Over 200 Men, Now I'm a Happily Married Heterosexual Dad
- James Parker
Overcoming Sexual Brokenness and Healing My Shame-
Dee Barnes
My Roller Coaster Ride to Freedom from Unwanted SSA
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A Guy from Brooklyn
Just One of the Guys
- J
A Low Attack on Same-Sex Therapy
- Jeff Bennion
A Healing Journey out of Porn Addiction and Same-Sex Attraction
- D.M from Tennessee
Knowing How the Fairy Tale Ends
- Don
This Is Who I Am: Masculine
- Chris Stump
What Happened to the Idea of Brotherly Love?-
Roger Mann
Why SSA Became A Blessing In Disguise
- S
New Beginnings and Finding My Voice
- CSR in Israel
Voices
- R.W.
Releasing Shame, Loving Myself, and Seeing Hope
- Charles from France
Dear Brother
- R.W.
Goodbye My Wicked Beloved
- R.W.
Telling My Fiancee About My SSA
- Mohamed J
Want To Overcome SSA?
- Ezri
I Was the Other Man: An Insiders Look On Why Gay Marriage Will Never Work
- Joseph Sciambra
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Why VOC?
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APA President Dr. Nicholas Cummings
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Feminine Soul
Understanding SSA As A 'Signal'
Phelim McIntyre
Dr. Julie Harren-Hamilton
Contact
Resources
Reparative Therapy
Suggested Reading Audio/DVD
BRAND NEW eBOOK! "Jake's Story"
Therapists